The Encyclopedia of Red Flags

Red flags are those little (or big) signs that the person you are dating may be anywhere from just a tad bit off, to a majorly destructive person. The Encyclopedia of Red Flags is the definitive guide to recognizing universal red flags that something is amiss (as opposed to harping on harmless personality quirks or evolutionarily driven male tendencies). These flags are early warning signs that should not be ignored. However, this book is different from other dating books in that does not encourage you to keep "nexting" every man you meet that does not stay within a narrow range of acceptable behaviors. Instead, The Encyclopedia of Red Flags guides the reader to go within herself to examine the beliefs, attitudes and behaviors that may be attracting these red flags, especially if she keeps attracting the same ones over and over again. It is possible to heal these attraction patterns and move into self-growth and peaceful dating. I believe that we attract what we are, what we expect and what we believe we deserve. After each red flag, I have provided a few mental thought patterns and beliefs that you may hold that could be causing you to attract a man with a particular red flag. Ask yourself the questions I've provided and see if they are true for you. If they are, it's time to examine where that belief came from and choose a new belief.