SAY THIS, NOT THAT: A Parent Advocacy Language Guide for IEPs & 504 Plans

Most parents walk into IEP and 504 meetings knowing something is wrong. Few are given the language to fix it. Say This, Not That gives parents the exact words to use when: The school blames the child Services are denied Data is missing Meetings feel predetermined or something just doesn’t feel right This powerful advocacy guide provides 100 real-life scripts that help parents: Redirect conversations back to disability and access Respond to school pushback without being dismissed Create a strong paper trail that protects their child Advocate clearly, confidently, and effectively Each tip shows: What parents want to say What to say instead Why it matters legally and strategically This is not about being polite. It’s about being precise. Because when parents know what to say, schools listen differently. Perfect for parents of students with: IEPs 504 plans ADHD autism learning disabilities anxiety behavior challenges …and any parent who has ever left a school meeting thinking: “I wish I had said that differently.” You are not asking for too much. You are asking for access.